Clearly some men who online offend may have or go on to contact offend, but I think that most professionals would agree that most do not. That is quite unprofessional - she is not an expert in adult sexual offending, nor does she have an individual risk assessment about your husband and the risk he may or may not pose specifically to your son. While I understand that social workers are going to mirror the revulsion that most people have to child abuse, I would say that she shouldn't be saying that he will go to groom and contact offend. It sounds like you need help and support, so please keep talking to friends, family, Lucy Faithfull Foundation, Samaritans. So sorry to hear about the situation your husband has put you in.
He would be so messed up if he didn’t get to see his daddy “his best friend” I have no idea what I do or where I go from here, I don’t even know what I want people to reply, I don’t really know a lot anymore. He has always been an Amazing dad and our LO adores him. Do all offenders do this? He is classed as a child in need at the moment. The SW was so anti my husband and doesn’t want my husband to have much contact with his dad, she told me he will go on to groom and then abuse. My husband is classed as low risk, he got 18 months Community order and 100 unpaid hours. I’m in a very lonely and dark place and hardly ever leave the house. My husband doesn’t live with us anymore and I don’t know what I’ll do if I’ll get back together or stay by myself, at the moment i am looking after our LO and taking one day at a time. My head is all over the place, I’m depressed and have no idea about tomorrow let alone my future. SS once again got in touch and I have ended up with a battle axe. My husband pleaded guilty 2 weeks ago at having the images as he’ll get a lighter sentence, he still maintains he has no idea how they got there as the forensic report says they weren’t downloaded and were in a “cache” which he wouldn’t be able toĪccess but for them to be there he would have had to open them first. They got in touch with our new area SS whoĭidn’t even come out as my report was fine with no issues. I cooperated with SS and told them where we were going. We have a 5 yr old together and as soon as his arrest happened I moved away. He sent it straight back telling them “it’s not his thing” after the forensic report came back he was charged with 7 indecent images cat C ranging from 14-18 and NOT the original one they came to get him for. My husband had been on a chat room and someone sent him an image. They had 1 class A image which had been downloaded to the laptop. Police arrived with a search warrant and to arrest my husband. Last year my life was torn apart by a 6am knock at the door. I am new to this group so please bear with me.
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